Five
A Time For Reflection
As the fifth anniversary of my wife's death looms, surely I must have learned something.
As the fifth anniversary of my wife's death looms, surely I must have learned something.
I touched on this in Goodbye, Dad, but I wanted that one to be mostly about him, so I didn't talk about the rest of my trip, which was all about my wife. It's time.
After everything I've been through, I needed to make sure that The Old Man's death didn't become just an afterthought (and even then, it almost did).
I told the story of my wife's death once, but in a mostly big-picture sense. Now my compulsion to write has me scrutinizing the details—augmenting my fickle memory with texts, emails, and medical records.
After more than two years navigating the aftermath of my wife's death, I think I found the answer. The obvious next step, for me, was to tell her all about it. This may be hard to read, especially if you have suffered a significant loss of your own.
Two cancers, plus a brain disease—the whole story would take too long. So I'll (mostly) skip to the end.